A Fun Festive Advent Calendar to Banish the Pandemic Blues
A Fun Festive Advent Calendar to Banish the Pandemic Blues
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Yikes! Hasn’t it been a looonnnnng and restrictive couple of years?
But as we are about to board the grumble bus… twinkling fairy lights are appearing at the end of the tunnel! YAY!
This might be the most hotly anticipated summer holiday that has ever been. Perhaps you’re feeling a bit rusty in the old “having fun” department… same here! So we’ve created the ultimate saucy festive fun calendar to help you get back in the zone.
Hold onto your Christmas stockings… here are 25 ideas guaranteed to help you end the year with a smile!
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Shall We Dance!
It’s scientifically proven that music can have a powerfully positive impact on your mood – and moving your body is one of the best ways to release feel-good endorphins… So, here’s our number one pleasure hack. Create a playlist of your favourite tunes and bop around your bedroom! Rock out your favourite moves and shake off the pandemic blues!
1. Let’s Swim!
We’ve heard a rumour that saltwater can cure anything… and while there are no studies to back up this particular claim, our own experience is that it’s pretty close to a magical cure-all! So now that the weather is on our side, why not head to the beach!
Jumping into the ocean, or even a swimming pool is refreshing and invigorating. It can help to wake up your body and perk up your spirits. Why not grab your lover and invite them to join you for a dip and have some fun splashing around? Bathing suits are optional. 😉 Keep safe by sticking to the bathing areas.
2. Go Hiking!
Dust off your walking shoes and head out to explore your environment! Getting out into nature is so healing and can help you to feel grounded. It doesn’t even have to be far away. You can find inspiration for local places that are safe to explore on Google. Make it a date by packing a picnic and inviting your lover. Perhaps you could look for a secluded spot to snuggle up.
Don’t forget to wear sunscreen, drink plenty of water and take some insect repellent.
3. Party Time!
‘Tis the season to be jolly! It might feel daunting to get back into social gatherings, so start small with your close friends and ease yourself in. Here are our tips to make parties fun again:
- Only say yes to the things that excite you
- Wear something that makes you feel fantastic
- Make sure you have a safe way to get home again
If you want to ramp up the fun factor, why not try wearing our Kegel balls while you party! As the balls shift around inside of you they can add a delicious layer of pleasure – and put a twinkle in your eye.
4. Strip Tease!
Why not make your lover the greatest Christmas present by wrapping yourself up in some saucy clothes and slowly removing the layers? Striptease is supposed to be fun – there’s no need to aim for perfection here.
Choose clothes that are easy to peel off, put on your favourite music and just go for it. Your partner will be delighted by the element of surprise and your playful attitude!
6. Feed each other!
Forget the diet – it’s time to get festive. Why not grab a blindfold and delight your partner with some delicious Christmassy treats? Have a selection of nibbles including things like mince pies, candy canes, brandy snaps, eggnog and even some Brussels sprouts on hand.
The fun is in the surprise – and you get to be in control the whole time!
7. Underneath the Mistletoe
With your busy schedules, it’s probably easy to skip fancy kissing and settle for a quick peck on the lips to say goodbye. Am I right?
Well, this is an invitation to explore the delectable art of kissing. All you need are two willing mouths and some imagination. (Perhaps avoid the garlic beforehand!)
Play with different kinds of kisses using your lips and tongue. Vary the pressure and speed and see what feels fun for you both.
8. Naughty List!
Curious about kink? This is the perfect time to try a little spanking for your naughty partner. 😉 Playing with the edge between pleasure and pain can be incredibly erotic. You don’t need special props, just a hand and a bottom.
But, you do need to do your homework first to learn safe techniques. It’s important to discuss boundaries and safe words before you begin. Communication is key here.
9. Board games!
Notice, we didn’t say “bored” games! This is playtime with a difference. Choose your favourite game – and make it a strip version. It works with anything from Monopoly, to 30 Seconds or even Twister. The fun comes in when you add nudity to the mix!
You can choose the exact rules, but essentially, the loser has to remove an item of clothing. If they protest, you can bring saucy negotiation to the table. Let your imagination go wild!
10. Festive Lingerie!
When last did you wear that cute set of underwear hidden at the back of the drawer? This is an invitation to chuck out those old holey knickers and wear something that makes you feel sassy!
You could even use this as an excuse to buy yourself a Christmas gift – perhaps something seductive and lacy. Slip into your favourite lingerie and enjoy the tingling feeling of excitement as it flutters through you. Perhaps there’s magic in those panties!
11. Secret Decorations!
Spend an evening writing out love favours for each other – kind of like IOU vouchers. Decorate your favours and hang them on your very own Christmas Intimac-tree.
Choose a mixture of fun, romantic and racy favours and then have fun picking a decoration to cash in on your next date night.
12. Memory Lane!
Remember the old photo slideshows you used to enjoy as a kid? Re-enact a mini version of that by going through your old photos in your cellphone gallery. It can be great fun finding pics of yourselves and chatting about the fun times you have enjoyed together.
13. Candle Lit Meal
Got a recipe book that you’ve neglected recently? Flick through the pages and choose a meal that you can prepare together. Make the whole process special with some music, clothes that make you feel good, and perhaps a glass of wine.
Put in as much effort as you would if you were hosting a dinner party, by setting the table, lighting the candles and savouring your meal. You are worth it!
14. Pamper Yourself!
Enjoy some you-time with a relaxing festive bubble bath. All you need to do is toss in a handful of Epsom salts, and a few drops of peppermint essential oil. Light some candles to set the mood and enjoy! Ahhhhh!
15. Movie Night!
Invite your lover to join you on the couch for some Netflix and Chill… with a little more umph! Choose a movie that is Christmassy, romantic, or even saucy. Yes, there are some steamy options on Netflix! Turn the lights down low, prepare a bowl of popcorn and wear something seductive.
Who knows where this night might end?
16. Let’s Talk!
It’s easy to be sucked into the hum-drum of everyday life… where we talk about little more than “what’s for dinner?” or “how’s work?”
And while there’s a place for that, it can make things feel a little stale when the conversation never moves on. So, here’s a fun Advent Calendar idea… grab a pen and some slips of paper and write down some interesting conversation starters together.
Keep them in a jar so you can grab one the next time you are at a loss for words!
17. Get Hands-On!
You don’t need to be a professional masseuse to give your lover a great massage. It’s a wonderful opportunity for skin-on-skin connection – and it’s impossible to be on your cell phones while it’s happening. Win-win!
You don’t need any fancy moves. Simply grab some oil or lotion and give your lover the gift of affectionate touch and your undivided attention.
18. Not yet…
Have you ever tried edging? It’s a lovemaking technique that can build up the erotic energy and make climax especially powerful. It simply involves taking your partner very close to climax with pleasure techniques, and then backing away and letting them cool off a little, before building them back up again.
It’s a form of pleasure power play – and you can do this 2, 3 or even 6 times! It’s up to you!
19. Introducing toys!
We like to think of sex as the adult playground – so it makes sense that toys would be a part of that! Treat yourself or your lover to the gift of sexual stimulation with a vibrator this Christmas. This can be a complete game-changer in the bedroom – as vibrators provide a consistent, rhythmic stimulation that feels so good!
20. Dress up!
Why not be silly and invite some Festive Roleplay into the bedroom? Nobody said it had to be so serious! Try dressing up like Santa, Mrs Claus, a Reindeer or even an Elf and see where your imagination takes you!
21. Wrap it up!
It’s often a last-minute festive chore – but why not make this year’s present wrapping session into a date night! Prepare a steaming pan of mulled wine, get into festive PJs, put on Michael Buble’s album and have fun. No fighting over the scissors!
22. Ice Skating!
No matter the climate, it’s always fun to go ice skating. It’s the perfect excuse to show off your twirls, and if you need a bit of practice, then this is a great reason to hold on tight to one another as you try to stay upright!
Ice skating can really get the blood flowing too – so it’s a win-win!
23. Visit a Craft Market
It’s been a tough year for small businesses, so why not make a point of visiting local markets together to do your Christmas shopping. It’s a great excuse to get out of the house – and it can feel much more fun than cruising a busy mall! Plus, you can drop hints about what you’d like to find under the tree!
24. Create your ultimate playlist!
Music is intrinsically linked to memory, so collecting all of your favourite tunes together on one playlist could become your personal shortcut to feel-good vibes. Don’t forget to add “your song,” one that reminds you of your first date, and others that connect you with musical memories you’ve shared together.
25. Go for a drive!
There’s something super romantic about taking a mini road trip. It doesn’t matter where you go – the fun is in the journey. Find somewhere fun to stop for lunch, go look at the Christmas lights – or even have a cheeky make-out session!
We hope that you have a great time making your way through this list of festive fun suggestions. And, we’re sure you’ll find one or two to get you feeling frisky!
Show us which ones you act out. Tag your photos on IG @justintimatetouch
Author : Lisa Welsh
About our guest writer: Lisa is a Pleasure Pixie and Sex Educator who loves helping people to unlock their full orgasmic nature.
You can find out more about Lisa at: https://inbedwithlisa.com/
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